Archive for July, 2006

No More Tolerating Insulting Comments

Saturday, July 1st, 2006

People, in all aspects of life, in many ways, have insulted me and gave me rude comments straight to my face purposely. My family, the group of people who are those that should support me, are the people bringing down my self-esteem.

This is my new resolution –> I’m not going to tolerate rude comments. If you want me to listen, say it properly. There are so many words to describe a person, so check the dictionary, or thesaurus, or ask around to find out a NICER way to replace the rude comments intended to say to me. Cuz I will NOT LISTEN to rude comments.

Do you know that words can be a lethal weapon?? Words, are tools to influence someone and shape the world. Is giving compliment such a hard thing to do? Is your mouth made out of poison? Sarcastic people are the ones I hate the most, what is the point of being sarcastic? What do you get out of it? Satisfaction? Fun? Pleasure?

Sarcasm, makes u a lesser popular person, because majority hates sarcastic people. Have you seen a sarcastic prime minister or president? Who likes someone that insults you indirectly? I believe no one, unless there are Sad people around… Sarcastic joke doesn’t make you a cool person, so can you sarcastic jokers out there, think about the consequences before you joke?

Some people speak with sarcasm to sarcastic people, I totally disagree with that. If you hate being sarcastic, do not be sarcastic to people, even if others started first. If you can be sarcastic but not hurting anyone,that’s cool, go on.. But I doubt that. Some people, people like me, are easily influenced by words, and sarcastic comments on us will make us feel bad for the rest of the day. Some people gave the reason as "inflating some big heads", did the they think about the their( boastful people) feelings? The people who boast are the people who want to be approved as someone important to their peers.Approve them, do not make them feel like they do not belong..

Some people regard rude sarcasm as "honesty", and that is dumb.Lets pick saints as examples : Do you think that Jesus/God will say "thou did a ‘good deed’, and I shalt reward thou free trip plus accommodation to hell!!" or  Buddha saying " If thou do not change thee’s attitude, watch your @$$, because the nature will make thou sit on a stick that drives through thou’s Hole".. No right? Why? They are honest people too, but they know how to be honest in a polite way, not a rude and sarcastic way.

To all sarcastic people, grow up, don’t hurt other people’s feelings for your own sake.

haih………….